I’m slowly working towards a fasting empire. At the beginning of January I got my boyfriend on board with the 5:2 diet. Having chewed his ear off and sung its praises for the past 6 months it was no surprise really that he would be tempted to have a go (even if only for a quiet life). I think being naturally interested in health and nutrition is often a precursor to the first 5:2 attempt and having watched me shed the pounds over the latter half of 2014 he was intrigued to see if it would have the same effect for him. In the last couple of weeks his mum has also started on the 5:2 and is also doing brilliantly- having lost 5ilbs in just one week.
According to a recent study, conducted by scientist at UCL which I read about on the BBC, when one half of a couple adopts a healthier change in lifestyle, the other is likely to also adopt these habits. Admittedly the study was conducted on those over the age of 50 but I still believe this would have a strong effect on most couples who live together. I think in my case this is because we both have a healthy competitive spirit which spurs us on along with the desire to be healthy in general for the long term.
I’m not going to lie, his 10lb weight loss (in just 3 weeks) makes me jealous. I am now losing weight much more slowly than when I initially started on the 5:2, but this makes me even more determined to get closer to my target weight before he does, sneaking in high intensity gym sessions or a long power-walk while he is out and consciously making healthier choices when we eat out on non-fasting days.
Being in it together also means less temptation on a fasting day, there’s nothing worse than being on a fast while everyone around you has ordered pizza. But now there is no need for solitary confinement, we just have to tell ourselves that salmon salad is equally yummy and that we can have a treat night on Wednesday. Fasting on the same days of the week also makes food shopping a lot easier and means we can keep the fridge bare and temptation free when it needs to be.
Moral support is also key, be it in the form of him prizing the chocolate muffin from my hands at 10pm or me telling him to play football or (the virtual equivalent) FIFA to distract himself from the hunger gremlins (this is my opportunity to have a long, relaxing bath and read a trashy magazine). We’ve also found that our attitude towards food changes after fasting, making us much more conscious of what we eat (and drink..) and making it all the more enjoyable when we do indulge in the odd treat night.
I also don’t think it needs to be a loved one. I believe having a fasting buddy can help motivate us and adopt healthier lifestyle choices. I have a friend who has taken up the 5:2 and she is a great source of new recipe ideas, tips and general moral support and motivation. Lets be honest. The 5:2 is clearly pretty contagious, so there’s a lot to be said for being healthy in numbers.